Tuesday, February 26, 2008

Why Hillary Clinton Almost Lost My Vote

Guest Post from Ms (She's the smart one) (Not my guest but Same Blog, Different Day's guest. Hell, we all know each other.)

BY MS.

(Ed. Note: I know exactly when Senator Clinton lost my vote - 2002, when she voted to authorize to invade Iraq. For Ms., it was the uninvited visit by Antonio Villaraigosa and Henry Cisneros that spurred a 3 day switch to Obama. She has since re-committed to voting for Hillary Clinton, but only after taking a week to calm down. Here is her inaugural post. The blogospere just got smarter!)

One day last week, all of us Harris County Tejano Democrats gathered for our endorsement meeting, otherwise known as the never ending procession of judicial candidates. The room was packed and stuffy, and there was a cake waiting to be cut and eaten in the back. Needless to say, I was anxious for things to get going. However, my hopes for a fast and painless meeting were dashed when there were whispers that Henry Cisneros was coming in. Let’s just say that my reaction to this was closer to when I was forced to visit the petroleum museum as a child than when I got to hear Ann Richards speak for the first time. (Just to be clear, I still have nightmares about my field trips to the petroleum museum, and I consider Ann Richards one of my personal heroines.)

If you haven’t already figured it out, I’m not a fan of Henry Cisneros, for several reasons, and I didn’t take kindly to having my evening made longer by having to listen to him, yes him, tell me why I should vote for the candidate I was already supporting.
But then it got worse…so much worse.

As he began to speak, Cisneros announced that Antonio Villaraigosa, the “media relations specialist” that currently serves as the mayor of Los Angeles, was on his way in. That’s when I started to really lose it, especially when I realized that Dolores Huerta had walked in with him and was then relegated to the corner while Cisneros and Villaraigosa patted each other on the back and proceeded to take 45 minutes of my life that, as La Sandra would say, I will never get back. Neither of them even bothered to acknowledge Huerta’s presence or let her speak, that is until they were both done with their dog and pony show. I guess each was temporarily blinded by the other’s overwhelming charisma (yes, that’s me gagging) and just forgot to introduce a true living legend that has done more to help Hispanics in this country than either Cisneros or Villaraigosa could ever hope to.

Let me try and explain why I was so offended and insulted that the Clinton campaign sent these two in to try and win my vote (which, again, she already had):
  • This is the best that we can do? These are the Hispanic public officials that are supposedly going to motivate and influence me to go out and serve the public and also vote for Hillary Clinton? A convicted felon and a mayor that found time in his busy schedule to have an affair with the political reporter that covered his administration? Are you freaking kidding me?
  • Dolores Huerta was the only one that should have been allowed to speak. This is a woman that has dedicated her life to helping others, to giving a voice to those that don’t have one, to making this country a better and more democratic place, to righting the wrongs that are so pervasive in our society, to working toward social justice. She’s done all of this without any fancy titles, without any self-interest, without the need for constant public adoration or recognition, without the need to dominate anyone or anything, without an oversized ego, and without a campaign account and staff. Yet, somehow, she was the one that was in the corner that ended up speaking for only a couple of minutes once the other two had given me a headache.
  • Both of these men just assumed I wanted to listen to them speak. Can anyone say sense of entitlement? They assumed they have something to say that is worth listening to, that they have some positive influence over me, and that I have a shred of respect for either one of them. Worst of all, they assumed that they are somehow Hispanics the rest of us look up to. Well, they assumed wrong.
  • If Cisneros and Villaraigosa had been female public officials with the same histories, would they still be allowed to have political careers and would they be held up as role models for the rest of us? Would they be out stumping for a presidential candidate? I think we all know the answer to those questions.

I know some people say the personal lives of politicians shouldn’t affect their public roles, and I agree. The problem with these two is that they are the ones that allowed their personal lives to adversely affect their roles as public officials. How much time did their “dalliances” take away from their focus on their public duties? How much of the government’s time and money was spent dealing with this negative attention considering that media reps and public information officers cost money? How much time did investigators spend looking into the false statements Cisneros gave them? How much time and energy did Villaraigosa and his administration spend trying to undue the damage of his scandal that could have been dedicated to the real needs of the people of Los Angeles? How much of the headway Hispanics like Dolores Huerta have made did they compromise, considering Hispanics (like all minorities) are held to different standards and face different hurdles than our Anglo counterparts?


My fundamental question, as I feverishly text messaged other people also on the verge of exploding during the meeting, was simply the following: Does Hilary Clinton really think so little of me, my intelligence, and my fellow Hispanics that she sent these two sorry excuses for public servants in to speak to me and to convince me that they know what’s best for all of us? I don’t care if they are Hispanic-they are an embarrassment.


In the rush of the text messages being sent back and forth, I may even have told some Obama supporters that I was moving over to their side. Actually, I did say that...and more. Nonetheless, I will probably still support Clinton because she is my preferred candidate. It was a close call, but if Dolores Huerta is willing to support her, I figure I should take that into consideration before letting Cisneros and Villaraigosa affect my decision. After all, her opinion does mean something to me.

Monday, February 25, 2008

I F*cking Ben Affleck!!!!!

Jimmy Kimmel is f*cking funny. So I felt that I should post this video which is in response to the video Sarah Silverman did because she wanted to tell Jimmy she was f*cking Matt Damon.

Honestly I have a man crush on Matt Damon and now Ben Affleck. Loved both videos and they are hilarious.F

Thursday, February 21, 2008

Jorge Ramos is Smart

I was pretending to read at home yesterday after trying sushi for the 1st time when I got a call from my mom:

Mom: Mijo, are you going to the debate tomorrow?
Me: No ma, I didn't get tickets.
Mom: Why didn't you? You know it's a big debate.
Me: I know, but they weren't selling them. I did sign up to get some but I didn't.
Mom: Well, you're gonna miss it, Jorge Ramos is going to be there.
Apparently, my mom (an HRC supporter) is also very excited about seeing Jorge Ramos, this Spanish news genious. As am I. Jorge Ramos is articulate and intelingent and I think a great reporter in general.

"'Some folks consider him the Walter Cronkite of network news because of the many years in his work, the serious dedication to having a balanced representation of news,' said Federico Subervi, a professor of journalism and mass communication at Texas State University-San Marcos."
"Ramos's distinguished career includes 12 years as anchor for Noticiero Univision, eight Emmys for excellence in journalism and he has covered five wars as anchor. He also writes a weekly column for 40 publications, including The New York Times syndicate, and contributes to Radio Univision.

Ramos has also published seven books, out of which four have been published in English. Subervi points to one of Ramos' published works, The Latino Wave: How Hispanics Will Elect the Next American President, as addressing the issue of the Hispanic community's impact on the political process that is now being pushed into mainstream America."
I don't think this article does him justice, but it deffinitely shows how impressive his resume is. Being placed on this panel shows the importance of the Latino/Latina community in this election and the ones to come.

I know they only come to the nopal cuando tiene tunas (Only come to the cactus when it has fruit) but hopefully they will start noticing that the Hispanic, Latino, etc. community is a force to watch.
GREAT JOB AND GOOD LUCK JORGE RAMOS!!!

Monday, February 18, 2008

Immigration laws prevent police from solving crime

This is an article from Grits for Breakfast, I don't think I could add anything else to it. Thanks Grits...

Immigration laws prevent police from solving crime

The most important public safety argument for expanding legal immigration and legalizing undocumented immigrants, to me, is the fact that immigrants tend not to cooperate with law enforcement as either a victim or a witness, even in cases of domestic abuse. KXAN-TV in Austin had a recent story on this topic:

For those living in this country illegally, the fear of deportation can keep them from reporting a crime. ...

"Women in general are afraid to report domestic violence," said Detective Darla Fuller of the Travis County Sheriff's Office. "When a woman is afraid of deportation, usually that is something that the batterer has used to keep her in line or to try to keep her from calling law enforcement."

There are supposedly around 1.6 million undocumented immigrants living in Texas. That's 1.6 million people who are unlikely to either report crimes against them (particularly those committed by a family member) or cooperate with police as a witness.

Austin PD and the Travis County Sheriff both say they don't ask victims about immigration status, but the Travis Sheriff has just allowed federal immigration agents to set up shop in the jail, so in cases of domestic violence, if the immigration status of the offender is the same as the victim, the policy still keeps people from calling.

The Sheriff's Department actually recommended women in this position call the Political Asylum Project or SafePlace, a shelter for abused women, if they're worried about immigration status issues getting mixed up in a domestic abuse case. That seems outrageous to me: Our immigration policies are now causing law enforcement to refer out domestic violence cases to non-profits? That can't be good for public safety.

In a related safety matter, security expert Bruce Schneier makes similar arguments as to why illegal immigrants, as a practical matter, "we are all safer if we encourage every adult in America to get a driver's license," he wrote. Read his full essay from the Detroit Free Press where he argues, "We are all safer if everyone in society trusts and respects law enforcement. A society where illegal immigrants are afraid to talk to police because of fear of deportation is a society where fewer people come forward to report crimes, aid police investigations, and testify as witnesses."

Saturday, February 16, 2008

Racial Profiling is a No-No

Racial profiling is a violation of human and civil rights. It has been used by law enforcement agencies to target and harrass certain communities, like the African-American/Black, Hispanic/Latino, and the Asian, Middle Eastern, and South Asian communities.

So because we are in Texas, I get a pep in my two step when I hear stories like this one.

This is from Jacksonville, where in the world is this town, Texas. It seems that the chief there is taking racial profiling by his officers very seriously.

“We haven’t received any racial profiling complaints in the past year, however, we did receive one the year before. After checking the tapes, it was determined to be unfounded, and it wasn’t even made by the person who was supposedly profiled, it was made by a friend of theirs,” he said. “The law requires that formal complaints against officers must be made in writing. However, even if someone just calls us about an officer behaving inappropriately, we will review the tapes to see what happened. This is something that we want to make sure that we have no problems with.”

The information the chief is talking about is required by Texas statute. The law requires police departments to collect data pertaining to traffic stops, pedestrian stops, searches conducted and citations issued. Although this law is not perfect, it is a step forward.

One of the things that could be done around the state is to require written consent for consent searches. For those that don't know, consent searches are searches that are done without probable cause. The person gives officers consent to search them. On a probable cause search, the officers have a reason to search the person. For example, they search a car because they see a crack pipe on the passanger seat. I'm not a lawyer, this is not legal advice.

Back to the article, "the report shows that of a total 4,256 citations given, 2,364 (55.5 percent) citations were issued to white drivers, 935 (21.9 percent) were issued to black drivers and 951 (22.3 percent) were issued to Hispanic drivers in 2007. Census information from 2000 indicates that 53.5 percent of Jacksonville’s population is white, 21.5 percent is black and 23 percent is Hispanic. "

I want to congratulate Jacksonville, Texas for not profiling.

Going once, going twice

So it's true, the Texas Democrats are having a raffle to the presidential debate at UT at Austin. So, I don't even know why I'm posting this because I signed up and I want my ticket. So don't sign up. The less people the better.

Don't do it!!!!!!!!

I guess, click here to visit the site.

La Evidencia

I have talked about how I dislike Craddick Ds. Okay, I think the majority of us share this opinion. This staffer on the House side posted this video on his facebook account and now I'm sharing it here.

I love it. Kino Flores is a liar. La evidencia proves it.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ChlrcQsS8yo

Enjoy.

I've been working on the railroad...

Well, not really, but I am at work though. I am kicking myself though, 'cause even though I set my alarm fro 5:30a, I ended up falling asleep and waking up at 6:25a and I had to be at work at 6:45!!!!!!

So I got up, brushed my teeth took a shower and ran my a$$ out of the house. Ugh. Crazy Saturday.

All in a day.

Thursday, February 14, 2008

Español para la Nana

Sometimes I feel like doing this. Too funny. This is from YouTube. Not too appropriate for work, specially if your boss speaks spanish. Here is the link if clicking on the square doesn't work.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5fda4_wo6JI

Brian Thompson

I know some people don't like Bryan because he is running against an African-American woman, but I thought I would pass this along. I actually like him because I think he would be good for the eastside. We'll see.

An invitation from 60 friends of the Brian Thompson Campaign for a fundraising reception honoring Brian Thompson Democratic Candidate for HD 46.

Please join us on:
Monday, February 18th
5:30 to 7:30
The Dakota Lounge @ The Belmont
305 W. 6th Street

Sponsorship Levels:

  • $1000 - Platinum Sponsor
  • $500 - Gold Sponsor
  • $250 - Silver Sponsor
  • $100 - Bronze Sponsor
  • $25 suggested contribution at the door

Donations can be made online or at the door.

Complimentary hors d'ouvres and a cash bar.

The Brian Thompson Campaign Host Committee: Sujata Ajmera, Stephanie Alfaro, Jeb Boyt, State Rep. Lon Burnam, Dan Byrne, Stuart Campbell, Greg Chanon, Amy Clark Meachum, Sam Colletti, Gary Cooper, Richard Craig, Joe Crews, Blair Dancy, R. Craig Davis, William Dibrell, Claire Dinsmoor, Mark Domel, Susan Engelking, Mark Erwin, Manuel Escobar, Richard Franklin, Emily Frost, Matt Glazer, Robert Grunnah, Richard Hartgrove, K. D. Hausenfluck, Sandra Haverlah, Michael Hebert, Thomas Helms, Jordan Herman, Michael Kabat, Mike Kelly, Susan Kelly, Marc Knisely, Scott Landry, Fred Lewis, Alexis Lorick, April Lucas, Steve McConnico, Cathleen McGarity, Tom McGarity, Rosie Mendoza, Steve Mostyn, Jessica Palvino, T. J. Palvino, Stacey Reese, Kirk RudyPaul Ruiz, Eugene Sepulveda, George Shipley, Mike Slack, Slack & Davis, John Stayton, Carlo Taboada, League of Conservation Voters, Steven Tomlinson, Hong Tran, The Victory Fund, Marc Winkleman, Angela Woodbury.

Donations can be made online and you can sign up to volunteer by clicking here.

For more information contact the campaign office at (512) 524-5682 or e-mail info@electbrianthompson.com.

Please click here to donate or click here to volunteer.

Happy Valentine's Day

Valentine's Day. Day for love and friendship. Well this year I am not spending it with my loved one since we are in two different cities, she's in Houston and I'm in Austin and sick. This sucks ass.

So I got an e-mail today from Planned Parenthood about their latest campaign, which I love!

"There are many beautiful ways to show your love. We think one of the best is to take good care of yourself. February 14-21 is National Condom Week and Planned Parenthood encourages you to take control of your sexual health and use a condom every time. Condoms are 98% effective when used consistently and correctly. They greatly reduce the risk of pregnancy and transmission of sexually transmitted diseases including HIV and the types of HPV (human papilloma virus) that cause cervical cancer. This week and always we want you to LOVE CAREFULLY. Want to learn more? Click here to test your condom knowledge."

FYI: Planned Parenthood of Houston and Southeast Texas ensures the right and ability of all individuals to manage their sexual and reproductive health by providing health services, education and advocacy.

Today, love yourself and your partner. Protect yourself. Have fun.

Tuesday, February 12, 2008

Rick Perry: Governor MoFo and Author

Texas' big haired dictator, I mean governor, has written a book about things that don't go his way. Mostly, about the ACLU being a pain on his butt because they keep suing the Boy Scouts of America. Being a Boy Scout himself, shocking since he has no honor, or at least no one believes that he does praises the Boy Scouts for discriminating against people who don't believe in God, the gays, and women.

Way to go Rick. I didn't think you could sink any lower.

Apparently, "[w]hether it is protecting the rights of pornographers, molesters, perverts, terrorists, garden-variety thugs, or those merely hostile to a belief in God, the ACLU is there to provide aid and comfort, in additional to a well-funded legal arsenal," Perry writes. Uhm, Rick, you may want to get your staffers to do some fact checking. The ACLU doesn't just sue people, it educates and protects people civil and human rights.

I don't understand how he can point the finger at someone else, because when it comes to doing the Christian or Godly thing in regards to important social issues (CHIP, healthcare, education...) he has been very un-Christian and un-Godly. Also he says that "If the liberal elites were only to try to chip away at the values of society from the outside, it might not matter except in the particular cases where their narrow view prevails," Perry writes. "The fact is, however, they are entrenched in public positions of power, wielding the levers of control in public institutions across the country."

I think the same thing can be said for religious zealots, uhm Dubya Bush, that have been chiping away at women's rights, immigrant rights, health care for the people who can't afford it, lack of funding for education, and the list goes on. Instead of doing the Godly thing, these religious extremists have worsened the state of the country.

Because the profits of the sale of his book are going to the Boy Scouts, apparently, that is what he talks about the most and the god-hating ACLU of course. He thinks that the ACLU is taking religion away and that, "[t]he faith that permeates the lives of so many middle Americans is often derided as a crutch for weak people," Perry writes. "This seems to be the view of many liberal elitists who worship the false idol of self. The views of a great many Americans are cast aside as over-simplified, and the liberal intelligentsia like to think of themselves as the only legitimate arbiters of morality. They think the public simply doesn't know better and is easily manipulated by the emotional appeals of troglodyte, conservative commentators."

I know what I'm sending Rep. Lon Burnam for his birthday or for Christmas. I know he would just simply love it. Anyway, the Austin American Statesman has an article about it.

Rick Perry, I consider myself a liberal person and I don't believe the ACLU is taking away people's religion or beliefs. In fact, I think they are protecting them from people like you. Grow up. Your opinnion and religion are not the only ones that matter.

National Teen Dating Abuse Helpline

A couple of posts ago I talked about Teen Dating Abuse Awareness Week. This week, the Houston Chronicle posted an article about the Nat'l Teen Dating Abuse Helpline as they celebrate their one year anniversary.

The article gives a history about the battered woment's movement and how it has been able to reduce the number of victims and a description of the helpline center and its workers/volunteers. The helpline is "[h]oused in a florescent-lit room on the ground floor of the council's Austin office, the new helpline more closely resembles a college dorm room than a national nerve center for teen dating abuse counseling. IKEA desks and artwork line the walls, and a couch is available for napping in the back corner." In comparison, the National Domestic Violence Hotline which is on the second floor "where phone operators, called advocates, sit in a large room filled with cubicles while a white noise machine drowns out their individual conversations."

The teen helpline is different in that they use mostly chat engines to communicate with teens and have basically annonimous conversations about their relationships or their behavior.

Also, "[a]t the teen helpline, callers often seek advice not on filing a protective order, but on telling their parents about being hit or arranging safe places at school away from an abusive classmate they had been dating. Others call with questions about Web stalking or being harassed through text messaging."

"I think we realized some time ago that the violence happens earlier than we were admitting," said Debby Tucker, one of the council's (Texas Council on Family Violence - www.tcfv.org) founders. "But it's taken a long time to arrange services for young people and figure out effective strategies."

I think it is great that this information is available to teens and people in general. I hope that they can get the help that they need.

ARE YOU A VICTIM?
Does something about your relationship scare you? Take this quiz to see if you might be in trouble. If you answer yes to even one, you may be in an abusive relationship.

Does your boyfriend/girlfriend:
• Look at you or act in ways that scare you?
• Act jealous or possessive?
• Put you down or criticize you?
• Try to control where you go, what you wear or what you do?
• Text or IM you excessively?
• Blame you for the hurtful things they say and do?
• Threaten to kill or hurt you or themselves if you leave them?
• Try to stop you from seeing or talking to friends and family?
• Try to force you to have sex before you're ready?
• Hit, slap, push or kick you?

To get help:
loveisrespect.org
• 1-866-331-9474
• 1-866-331-8453
Source: Loveisrespect.org , National Teen Dating Abuse Helpline

Or you can contact the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) or their website at http://www.ndvh.org/.

You are not alone, there is help out there. The advocates at these helplines WILL NOT force you to do anything you don't want to.

I'm back


I was out this entire weekend. I finally got some needed rest and relaxation. I went to the awesome Reik concert. They were amazing.

This picture is from their concert in San Antonio last year, but I haven't transfered the photos from this concert, so this one will do for now.

I swear I was screaming, but no, I didn't throw my underwear at them. They were great, they give a great show.

Next stop: Gloria Trevi.

Thursday, February 7, 2008

I'm F*cking Matt Damon

I love Sarah Silverman, she's funny and hillarious and great. She's too funny.

The other day she was on Jimmy Kimmel, her long time boyfriend, to tell him something.

This is what she had to say to him. So click on this link to see her song to Jimmy:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wnVJZkDuVBM

Wednesday, February 6, 2008

I'm Filled with Jesus' Love!!!

Today is Ash Wednesday and the begining of Lent. Ash Wednesday is the day that you atone for your sins followed by a symbolic fasting (you usually give something up) for 40 days and 40 nights which is the amount of time Jesus spend in the desert after the temptation period with Lucifer. Then comes Good Friday which is the cruxifiction and death of Jesus that takes us to Easter which is the awakening.

Because I'm not Catholic or a non-practicing Catholic like so many of my friends I don't follow lent, so I won't be giving up anything. What are you giving up?

Yes, I had a conversation about this with some people who brought me up to speed.

Thanks guys.

P.S. What do y'all think of Mary Magdalen shacking up with Jesus? Discuss.

Honestly Sir, I don't know where the money came from.

Tom Craddick is an evil dictator. There I said it.

As we all know, Tom Craddick and his many minions are out to screw our state even more than it already is. So, we all know that he has his little Craddick D's, they're like Claymates, but less fun and more crazy. In Austin we have Dawna Dukes who many people are supporting her over Brian Thompson because she's black, sort of. Any ways, so I was talking to this guy the other day and he mentioned that a minority, even if she supports Craddick and hasn't done much for the community, would be better than another white man. I didn't mention the gay part 'cause I think I would have been kicked into next week.

So, as I was doing research on the border and all the crazyness going on down there, I ran into this article in which Kino Flores, D-ish, Craddick's Bung Hole and Aaron Peña, D-ish, Craddick's Feet defend the fact that they received money from the Texas Jobs & Opportunity Build a Secure Future Inc., PAC that Craddick donated $250,000 to. Aaron, Kino, and Kevin Bailey from Houston each received $50,000.

During the interview, Kino said that he gets "campaign funds from all sorts of PACs. I get campaign donations from across the spectrum, from Republicans and Democrats. Yes, I got $50,000 but I do not know who contributed to that PAC" and that "just as much scrutiny should be placed on the campaign contributions going to my opponent, including tens of thousands of dollars from the pro-choice Annie’s List PAC."

Yes Kino Annie's List is just as evil as Tom f-ing Craddick.

What is wrong with him and Peña, who even after the reporter asked the question about why he took the money from the PAC he went around and blamed everyone else for his doing. Come one Aaron, stop blaming everyone else, stop avoinding the questions, and take some responsibility for the a$$ kissing you are doing.

I honestly wish the best of luck to their opponents and to Brian Thompson. These Craddick d!(%heads need to go. Damn freshmen will be better than these rotting pieces of cheese.

Tuesday, February 5, 2008

Teen Dating Violence Awareness Week

FYI - February 4-9 is Teen Dating Violence Awareness Week. This is as good time as any to talk to your kids, brothers, sisters, nieces and newphews about dating violence and domestic violence in general. If you don't have enough information, you can visit:

These are some of the signs that were mentioned in the article about North Texas:

  • Frequent Texting: 30% of teens in a dating relationship have been text-messaged 10, 20, or 30 times an hour by a partner keeping tabs on where they are, what they are doing or who they are with
  • Extreme jealousy
  • Isolating the other person from friends and family and monopolizing spare time to the detriment of other friendships
  • Telling the other person what to do, what to wear, who to spend time with
  • Explosive temper
  • Possessiveness

If something about your relationship with your partner scares you or you think something about your relationship is not right and you need to talk, please call the National Domestic Violence Hotline: 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) or 1-800-787-3224 (TTY).

If you are a teen and you need to talk about your relationship, please call the National Teen Dating Violence Hotline: 1-866-331-9474 or 1-866-331-8453 (TTY). The teen line also offers chat as an option of getting information.

Adoption by Gay and Lesbian Adults and Couples

So this is not mine, I got it from Help Starts Here. You know, from the previous post.

Adoption by Gay and Lesbian Adults and Couples
By Stephen Erich, PhD, LCSW

Introduction

The numbers of gay and lesbian adults and couples who are adopting children is increasing dramatically; at the same time, the number of adoption agencies willing to place children with gay and lesbian adults and couples is also increasing notably. What does this mean for children in need of healthy family environments? What does the research tell us about families with gay or lesbian parents, including those created through adoption?

First, a little background information about children awaiting adoption and the size of the adopter pool (parents interested in adopting). The number of children not living with their biological parents is at unacceptably high levels. Research suggests that there were 542,000 children in foster care in the United States in 2001 and as many as one third of these children may be eligible for adoption.

Many gay and lesbian adults and couples are interested in adopting children. However, discrimination has made it difficult for gay and lesbian adults and couples to complete the adoption process (Brodzinsky, 2003). Excluding gays and lesbians as potential adopters is not only discriminatory but it limits the number of potential adults available to adopt the thousands of children eligible for adoption.

Research on Families With Gay and Lesbian Parents

Although it is not commonly known, the research regarding parenting by gays and lesbians is very positive. The following list shows the important findings from research on families with gay and lesbian parents:
  • Lesbian mothers have been found comparable to heterosexual mothers in their desire to be parents (Kirkpatrick, Smith, & Roy, 1981; Lewin & Lyons, 1982; Osterweil, 1991).
  • Lesbian mothers have been found comparable to heterosexual mothers in their warmth toward children (Golombok, Tasker, & Murray, 1997).
  • Lesbian mothers have been found comparable to heterosexual mothers in their parental behaviors (Harris & Turner, 1986).
  • Lesbian couples have been found equal to or superior to heterosexual couples in dividing responsibility for chores equally, in financial cooperation, decision-making, relationship satisfaction and emotional expression (Brewaeys, Ponjaert, Van Hall, & Golombok, 1997; Chan, Brooks, Raboy, & Patterson, 1998).
  • Gay fathers have been found comparable to heterosexual fathers in involvement with their children, intimacy with their children, provision of recreation, encouragement of autonomy, problem-solving and parental satisfaction, but superior in the way they respond to child needs, and communication of reasons for appropriate behavior (Bigner & Jacobsen, 1989a; 1989b; 1992; Peterson, Butts & Deville, 2000).
  • Gay and lesbian couples value and desire commitment in relationships to the same extent that heterosexual couples do (Kurdek, 1995; Peplau, Veniegas, & Campbell, 1996)
    Children raised by gay and lesbian parents have no apparent adjustment problems that have been found to be related to their parent’s sexual orientation (Chan, Raboy, & Patterson, 1998; Flaks, et al., 1995; Patterson, 1994; 1997).
  • In comparison to children raised by heterosexual parents, children raised by gay and lesbian parents have been found comparable in intelligence, behaviors, moral development, and peer relationships (Allen & Burrell, 1996; Falk, 1994; Flaks, et al, 1995; Tasker & Golombok, 1995; 1997).

Research on Children Adopted by Gay and Lesbian Adults

There is a limited number of studies involving children adopted by gay and lesbian adults and couples but once again the results are very positive. The following shows important findings from research on adoptive families with gay and lesbian parents:

  • Adoptive families with gay and lesbian parents have been found to have positive family functioning, well-behaved children, and helpful family support networks (Erich, Leung, & Kanenberg, 2005a).
  • There were no significant differences between gay and lesbian adoptive parents and heterosexual parents in terms of family functioning, their children’s behavior problems, and their family support networks (Erich, Leung, & Kanenberg, 2005b).
    In a study involving three groups of adoptive families, “parent’s sexual orientation” was not found to be a significant predictor of how well families function (Leung, Erich, & Kanenberg, 2005c).

This research provides clear support for the well-being of children being reared in homes with gay and lesbian adults or couples. In concert with the National Association of Social Work Code of Ethics which prohibits discrimination in any form, these findings direct social workers to support the practice of adoption by gay and lesbian adults and couples.

Stephen “Arch” Erich is an Associate Professor at the University of Houston – Clear Lake where he directs the Baccalaureate of Social Work Program. His program of research is based primarily on LGBT family issues and more recently has been concerned with transgender well-being. He has given presentations at national, state, and local venues on LGBT topics and is actively engaged in advocacy on behalf of the LGBT community.

National Association of Social Workers Launches Public Education Campaign

The National Association of Social Workers (NASW) has launched a new campaign to educate the public about social workers and the work that they do for the society. Ha, you like that? I knew you would.

The Help Starts Here website gives information on social workers, professional standards among others and how social workers help the community. Social work is a great profession and should be out there even more. We are everywhere, from schools to prisons to hospitals to corporations to the courtroom.

I know that University of Houston has a good social work program and so does UT at Austin so check them out.

Friday, February 1, 2008

Immigration Hearing in Richardson, Texas

Today, the House Corrections Committee is having a hearing on immigration in Richardson, Texas (it's north of Dallas). Representatives from LULAC, ACLU, and other immigration rights groups will be present to give testimony.

The ACLU of Texas has put out a press release about Rebecca Bernhardt's testimony.

“Immigration enforcement is fundamentally a federal responsibility,” said Ms. Bernhardt. “Proposals that involve state and local officials in federal immigration enforcement lead to potential legal liability and undermine public safety.”

I agree, if people are afraid to call the police and report a crime, what's gonna happen to our communities.

To learn more about the ACLU of Texas go to their website.

The same for LULAC.

I hope the state comes to its senses and keep local law enforcement agencies from enforcing immigration laws, which are a federal matter.